I also learned a lesson last night, I was playing boil the cabbage by myself, when fretmentor picked up the lead, so I leiserly played the chords. Then all of a sudden fretmentor looked at me to pick up the lead, I was shocked and could not get into it. So from now on I will not relax and play the chords only, but must be aware of anything like instantly to take the lead on a moments notice. Also playing fly away, I cautioned myself to not play to fast and loud, that is what fretmentor has being telling me for weeks.